This lively story features the goddess Aphrodite and her son Eros. The ancient Greeks considered Aphrodite to be an extremely powerful deity. Together with Eros – the embodiment of physical desire - Aphrodite oversaw all sexual relationships. None could resist her when she urged them on. Even the gods were susceptible to her powers, falling for gods and mortals as she directed. Only Athena, Artemis, and Hestia could resist (Homeric Hymn V, To Aphrodite, 1-44).
Aphrodite was thought of as a ‘laughter-loving’ and smiling goddess, but she could also be formidable. In the Iliad, Aphrodite terrifies Helen into submission when Helen tries to resist her command to lie with Paris (Iliad.3.383+). Another myth told how Aphrodite destroyed Hippolytus, son of Theseus, when he refused to worship Aphrodite and chose to live as a virgin. This myth was the subject of Euripides’ play, Hippolytus Stephanephorus, and at least two lost plays - Euripides’ Hippolytus Calyptomenus and Sophocles’ Phaedra. The music on this animation comes from a performance of Hippolytus Stephanephorus.
Like Aphrodite, Eros was sometimes thought of as playful, as in this fragment of a 7th century poem by Alcman:
It’s not Aphrodite,
Just wild Eros playing his boyish games,
Alighting on the petals – please don’t touch!
- of my galingale garland.
(Alcman, 58, trans. after West)
But sometimes Eros was regarded as very ancient with a frightening power to overcome good judgement: Eros, fairest among the deathless gods, who unnerves the limbs and overcomes the minds and wise counsels of all gods and all men within them. (Hesiod, Theogony, 120).
As well as overseeing love and sexuality, Aphrodite presided over further aspects of relationships and fertility. In Corinth and Mantinea, she was worshipped as Aphrodite Melainis, or Black Aphrodite, overseeing the fertility of the soil and the powers of night. As Aphrodite Euploia she protected sailors and as Aphrodite Pandemos she promoted civic harmony. Young women about to marry sacrificed to Aphrodite (and Artemis), as did courtesans and prostitutes. As Aphrodite Urania, she presided over all unions – including those of the gods and the functioning of the cosmos itself. In the Homeric epics, Aphrodite is the daughter of Zeus and Dione (Iliad, 5.370-430). Others made her part of a much older generation – born of Uranus, the Sky. (in e.g. Theogony, 178-206, and often in cult).
Eros was often associated with the gymnasium and with the military, where he played an important role in promoting solidarity between soldiers. The playboy general, Alcibiades, had an image of Eros on his shield (Plutarch, Alcibiades, 16). In art, Eros is often shown as Aphrodite’s companion. He frequently carries a lyre or hare, but can be hard to tell from other winged boyish figures, such as Himeros (Desire), Anteros (Reciprocal Love) and Pothos (Longing). Eros could also appear in plural form, as several ‘Erotes’.